Family connection

1. How do you share something you’re proud of?

Wait for a moment when the whole family is together, like during mealtimes or after school and start by saying something like, ‘Something happened at school today and I would like to share it with you all!’
Then tell your family about your achievement. Sharing positively and humbly allows everyone to celebrate with you.
Sharing things with your family is important because you can share things you are proud of and also share some things that you might need some help with.
Remember to also celebrate your family members’ achievements so everyone can share things they are proud of.
This can help make mealtimes a time to share how everyone’s day has been and a time to bond over each other's achievements
When you’ve done something impressive at school, share it with your family by saying something like, "I received a compliment from my teacher today for my presentation!" This gives them a chance to celebrate with you and acknowledge your efforts.

2. What do you do if you and your sibling argue about a task?

This is a very common issue which is often easy to resolve by either coming up with a compromise or by agreeing to do the task together and coming up with a solution where both of you can get what you want
By coming up with a compromise such as setting the table together you can form a stronger relationship with your sibling through teamwork and you can work together on other chores and find it easier to share things.
This can help parents and children by creating a stronger sense of teamwork and generosity in the family
Resolving issues calmly keeps the peace and lets you both enjoy your time without upsetting your parents.
Rock, paper, scissors or flipping a coin can be particularly useful if you still can’t agree on a solution
Instead of getting upset, suggest a solution like, "How about we take turns doing this chore?" This way, you both contribute and avoid any tension, making it a team effort.

3. How do you talk to your family when you’re upset?

Sometimes when you feel upset it can be hard to talk to your parents or siblings, especially if you feel like they are irritating you. It is totally normal to feel like you want to go to your room and not talk about it.
A very useful trick is taking a few deep breaths to calm down a bit. Then you may find it easier to explain to your family what has been bothering you or making you upset.
It may be easier to talk while you’re doing something else with your family. For example, cooking dinner or riding in the car.
Remember your parents want to understand how you feel and it is important that you feel free to share your feelings and emotions.
You don’t have to have all the right words-just trying to explain is a great start.
By talking to your parents about it, they may be able to give you some useful advice and try to help the situation.
When you're upset, consider journaling about your emotions first. This can help you sort through your thoughts and make it easier to talk to your family without feeling overwhelmed.

4. How do you help at home?

When you see your parents tired from work and trying to handle the housework, you might wonder if you can help them out. Your parents would love for you to help out and you can definitely make a difference. Even small things like offering to put away the dishes, fold some laundry or feed the pets can be a huge help.
You don’t have to do the chore completely by yourself, I’m sure your parents would extremely appreciate an extra pair of hands. Remember, being part of a family means supporting others when they need help. Plus, it feels amazing to know you’ve made someone’s day easier.
And here’s a cool secret - maybe next time you’re tired and have to do a chore, they’ll help you out too!
Suggesting a shared activity like playing a game or watching a movie together can be a great way to bond. It also gives you the chance to have fun while spending time with family, making it easier to feel connected.

5. How do you seek more attention or support from your parents?

Everyone enjoys spending time with family and you might want their attention. You might see your parents busy with work or other things, and wonder how to tell them you'd like more time together. Just like they notice when you need help with homework, they want to know when you need more family time too.
Instead of keeping quiet or getting upset, try telling them directly what you're feeling. It could be as simple as saying "Mom/Dad, could we maybe play a game tonight?" Picking a good time to talk - like when they're relaxing after dinner - can really help them hear you better.
Most parents love it when their kids want to spend time with them! They might be busy sometimes, but knowing you want their attention makes them happy. Maybe suggest specific things you'd like to do together, like going for a bike ride or baking cookies.
If you notice a family member is stressed or struggling, offer your help with a simple, "Do you need help with that?" This can be especially helpful when they have a lot on their plate.

6. How do you show your family you care about them

Offer a small gesture, sometimes the smallest things can make the largest difference! You could surprise your family by making their bed, leaving a funny note in their lunchbox, or giving them a random hug just because. These little actions will brighten their entire day.
Showing you care doesn’t always mean buying gifts or doing big things. Sometimes it’s as simple as really listening when they talk about their day, or remembering something special they mentioned earlier. Maybe your sister told you she had a test she was worried about, asking her how it went later shows you were paying attention and care about what matters to her.
When you start showing your family you care in these little ways, a chain of kindness can start in your home and they often start doing more things for you.
If you’re looking for a way to show love and connection, start a small tradition like a weekly family walk or a movie night. These activities can help everyone feel closer and allow you to bond outside of daily routines.

7. What do you do when your parents are arguing?

When your parents argue, it can feel confusing or scary. Remember, their arguments aren’t your fault, and it’s okay to feel upset. You can go to your room and listen to music, read, or play a game with another sibling.
Talking to a trusted adult, like a grandparent, can also help. It can be comforting to express how you’re feeling to someone who isn’t involved in the argument.
You could try drawing or writing your feelings down in a journal. This can help you process emotions when the atmosphere is tense.
If you're feeling comfortable, letting your parents know their arguing makes you feel sad can help. Sometimes, grown-ups forget how arguments affect kids and need a reminder to work things out calmly.
You can offer to help them with some chores, as grown-ups usually have a lot to worry about. This can help ease some of the tension.
If things feel really tense, it’s okay to give everyone space. Suggest doing something to lighten the mood, like telling a funny story or playing a quick game.
You might want to talk to your parents when they are calm, letting them know how their arguments made you feel. This can lead to better communication in the future.

8. How do you share your thoughts with your family?

Sharing thoughts and ideas with your family is important, and you can start by finding a good time to talk, like mealtimes or during a car ride. Speak honestly and calmly so they understand how you feel.
If talking feels hard, try writing a note, sending a message, or even drawing a picture. This way, your idea is clear and can be easier to discuss.
Sharing ideas during activities, like playing a card game or cooking together, can make it fun and open the conversation naturally.
Presenting your idea clearly and confidently makes it easier for others to consider and support. Be prepared to listen to their thoughts, too.
If everyone’s unsure, you could suggest a compromise, like visiting Chinatown for part of the day and doing something else your family enjoys afterward.
Sometimes, offering to organise the trip or take charge of planning can make your idea more appealing to others.

9. How do you set boundaries with your family?

Boundaries help you feel comfortable and respected in your family. Start by indemnifying what makes you feel uncomfortable or overwhelmed — for example, needing personal space or uninterrupted time for homework.
When setting a boundary, communicate it calmly and clearly. Use “I statements to express your needs without blaming others. Instead of saying, “You always barge into my room!”, try “I feel better when I have privacy in my room. Can we agree to knock before coming in?”
If family members forget or cross a boundary, gently remind them. You could say, “I know you didn’t mean to, but I really need space right now. Let’s talk later”.
Setting boundaries doesn’t mean pushing your family away — it’s about making sure everyone feels comfortable and understood.

10. How do you celebrate differences in your family?

Every family member has unique opinions, traditions and interests. Instead of focusing on what makes you different, find ways to appreciate and learn from each other.
If a family member enjoys something you don’t, ask questions and show interest. For example, “I don’t know how much about your favourite sport. Can you tell me why you like it?” This helps you build respect for each other’s passions.
Try celebrating different cultures, traditions, or beliefs in your family by sharing stories, cooking a meal together or watching a movie that represents a family member’s background.
Respect each other’s opinions, even if you disagree. You might not always see eye to eye, but listening to understand rather than to argue helps strengthen your family bond.
Look for activities you all enjoy, even if they’re different from what you’d normally choose. If one sibling loves board games and another prefers hiking, try switching off between activities so everyone feels included.
Celebrating differences makes your family stronger — it helps each person feel valued and teaches everyone to be more open-minded.